75 Questions to Ask a Girl to Get to Know Her a Little Better

We understand that talking to people can not only be discouraging but nerve-wracking as well. We’re here to help you avoid the difficulty and rejection you might encounter for using the wrong approach. You may be wondering how to best express your feelings and what the best questions to ask a person are. After all, your goal is to start a meaningful conversation, right? The following questions to ask a girl are just the beginning. Of course, you should adapt them to the person in front of you (or on the other side of the chat window).

Getting to know people is hard, especially in our present times. Since you are still navigating murky waters, it is not like you could invite her to play a game of “Never Have I Ever” during your first conversations, although such questions are more than welcome after the ice broke and the two of you started engaging in sharing more personal stuff.

That is exactly why we compiled this list of the best questions to ask a person you barely know thus far. Now you can stop overthinking and start properly connecting with that person you’ve been meaning to strike up a conversation with for weeks. You can start a conversation by asking funny questions, personal questions, or even random questions.

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Connecting with a person that you want can be fun and exciting. Shooting questions about life and love can spark interest from the person you’re talking to. By taking the time to get to know the person you give them a sign that you are interested in their likes and dislikes. Who knows? One great question could be the start of a well-founded and fun relationship.

People with a good sense of humor are very attractive. People like it when you are fun to talk to. Why not make her talk and laugh more by asking the funniest questions? A fun question can also make a person answer and engage in a conversation with you. Don’t waste time, and make that person fall for you! On the other hand, avoid those questions to ask a girl that might be way too intimate or tap into sensitive subjects. At least in the beginning.

We have provided you with six categories of questions to give you a better idea of what to do and what not to do: flirty questions, get to know her questions, funny questions, weird questions, awkward questions, and random questions. Read on and turn your crush into a full-blown relationship. These are really interesting questions to ask a girl you want to know better.

20 Flirty Questions to Ask a Girl

These questions are recommended only for women that you already know pretty well – commenting on someone’s physical appearance right off the bat is off-putting and awkward and will make most women extremely uncomfortable. You don’t want to be one of “those guys” do you? However, if you are a master of words, you can adapt these questions to ask a girl you just met recently to show her you are genuinely interested without coming off as a creep.

You look absolutely radiant. How do you make your skin glow like that all of the time?

People give you tons of compliments everywhere you go, don’t they?

What do you think you would do if I said that I have been wanting to ask you out for forever?

Are you aware of how much your adorable smile can brighten up a room?

If we could get out of here right now and run away together, where would you want to go?

Why can’t we hang out together like this all of the time?

Do you realize how much I look forward to seeing you when I finally get the chance?

I never see you with makeup on-do you seriously wake up this cute every day?

So where am I taking you on our first date?

What is your favorite food and can I cook it for you sometime?

Will you send me a picture of you so that I can see you more often?

Those glasses look stunning on you, where did you get them?

What do you do to your hair every morning to make it look so shiny and perfect?

How are you not famous and living in Hollywood yet?

Why would you want to go on a date with that guy when you could go on a better date with me?

How do you make sweatpants look so good?

Do you have a partner?

How do you get your hair to smell so good all of the time?

Do you want to go grab a coffee so that we can get to know each other better?

Do you want to meet later for a drink out in the city?

25 “Get to Know Her” Questions

Most of the questions below tap into sensitive subjects, such as religion, politics, sex, life, love, and many more. Before you blatantly ask them to any girl you fancy, make sure you have a good context for them. It is not like anyone would be OK with having a pizza and a drink and be asked about their spiritual beliefs or to make predictions about their future love life.

Think twice before you ask any of these questions any woman you show an interest in and always make sure you adapt them to the situation you are in. Get some inspiration from this set of fun icebreaker questions that help people feel more comfortable in each other presence without pressure or prejudice looming above their heads.

Out of the blue deep and intimate questions in a casual context may reduce her interest in you. Moreover, keep in mind that if you ask serious questions, you should always answer them yourself.

What keeps you up at night?

What are the qualities that you are looking for in a person?

When you were younger, what did you want to be when you grew up?

What do you think are your greatest weaknesses and why?

What do you think are your greatest strengths and why?

What do you consider to be your greatest achievement in life so far?

Do you pay attention to politics or do you tend to stay away from that?

Is there any particular religion that you feel closer to as values and principles go?

If you were stuck on an island and you could only choose one person to be stuck with, who would you choose and why?

In your opinion, who are the five most influential figures in history?

What was/is your favorite subject in school?

Do you believe that the saying “nice guys finish last” has any truth to it?

Have you ever been in love and do you think you could be in the future?

What is your favorite type of music?

What is your favorite color?

What is your dream car?

Do you care more about making money or pursuing happiness?

Do you think that you would be happiest living in a city or on a farm?

Do you believe that we will have a female president in our lifetime?

What is the most interesting place you have traveled to and would you like to go there again?

How does it feel for you when you feel you are in love?

Have you ever experienced an unrequited love?

Did you support a cause or protest anything?

What is your most unusual or biggest fear? If it would be a Harry Potter boggart, how would it look like?

9 Weird and Awkward Questions to Ask a Girl

This series of questions to ask a girl works best when you two have been out once or twice already, had a few conversations before, and now you are just having fun discovering each other. This is not an interrogation, so be prepared to provide answers to the same questions if she prompts you to. In this category, you can add a few “Never Have I Ever” quirky questions, together with some questions inspired by The Newlywed Game. Select them well, however.

Have you ever tried to count the stars in the night sky and had to start over again?

Do you ever look at the moon at night and wonder if I’m looking at the same moon wondering the same thing about you?

How often is someone supposed to cut their toenails?

Do you know how a person is technically supposed to clean the under part of their fingernails?

Do you ever wonder how many people just died while you were wondering how many people just died at that moment?

Do you ever wonder if cats have been planning to kill us and take over the world this whole time?

Would you get mad if we were on a spaceship voyage to a different planet and I woke you up thirty years before we were due to arrive simply because I wanted to hang out or would you be excited about it?

Do you feel that it is awkward that I am asking you so many questions the first time we have even spoken?

If I were in the role of “damsel in distress”, being terrorized by a gigantic dragon, would you ride in on your white horse and save me?

12 Funny Questions to Ask a Girl

Being great at conversation AND having a sense of humor will take you places. The next series of questions to ask a girl are also on the quirky side. Some of them might be a bit too personal – or trigger a shy/shocked reaction – so be careful about her mood, the context, and the depth of your relationship so far.

For lighthearted questions that can spark some laughter and help you both relax and feel even more comfortable with each other, get some inspiration from our list of best Truth or Dare game questions. Forget the dare part of that game, just focus on the truth side, and make sure you do not cross any lines! It is one thing to ask a woman what was the weirdest thing she bought and quite the other to ask her how would she name your pet one-eyed snake.

How many chucks could a woodchuck chuck if a woodchuck begged you to go on a date with me?

On a scale from 1 to Chris Hemsworth, how attractive do you think I am?

Is that just your typical beautiful smile on your face or are you just happy to see me?

I swear that you have that Benjamin Button disease where you start out old and only get younger as you age. Otherwise how could it be possible that every time I see you look better than the time before?

If Natalie Portman passed away, how prepared would you be when the world called upon you to take her place because only your beauty compares to hers?

If we got into a fight and I moved away overnight how long do you think it would take you to follow me in order to pursue a romantic comedy moment?

What is the most hilarious moment on either television or a film that you have ever seen and why did that moment make you laugh so hard?

Do you ever wonder how great life would be if you just dropped everything and traveled with a roaming renaissance fair or is that just me?

If you could have anything you wanted in the whole wide world, what would it be?

Can you tell that all of the questions I am asking you came directly from an online blog or am I successfully communicating with a person right now?

You find a bottle and discover that there is a genie inside. What do you wish for?

Would you be more or less likely to talk to me more if I got a man bun and a bicep tattoo of a bicycle with flowers around it?

9 Random Questions to Ask a Girl

We only post here 9 random questions you ask a girl as examples. In reality, if you got this far into knowing her, you are probably making it on your own. However, don’t forget to avoid being too intrusive or inconsiderate. Sexy questions are fun only when both people engaged in the conversation are open to flirting and innuendo. If she wants to talk politics, don’t randomly ask her about her favorite vegetable. It makes you sound like you don’t listen to her or completely uninterested in what she has to say. However, in between some well-chosen Truth or Dare questions, ice-breaking questions, and Never Have I Ever questions, we are sure you can find something. The sky is the limit, especially after you created a genuine bond with that woman and you are both willing to let the guard down and have some fun.

Is there a word that you usually misspell? If yes, what is it?

Where would you most likely enjoy your vacation, in big cities? Or in rural areas?

What is the ugliest looking vegetable?

What is the worst movie you’ve ever seen in your life?

What is your favorite animal?

What is your dream job?

Between the quiet ones or the loud ones, what kind of people do you usually hang out with?

What is the shortest answer you ever gave someone?

What kind of people do you like?

Final Thoughts on Questions to Ask a Girl

As long as you do not turn this whole “get to know a woman better” business into a third-degree interrogatory, everything should be fine. Always mind the personality of the other person involved in the conversation and the actual context of your little fun talks. Sharing some of your most intimate thoughts, darkest fears, and weird fantasies right off the bat is not a good idea for obvious reasons. It is even a worse idea if your TMI style of sharing has the purpose of encouraging her sharing. Forcing people to put their hearts on the table in the first few rounds of conversation does not end well, usually. Any question from our list of good questions to ask a girl would be a great conversation starter. Once your crush turns into a relationship, make sure you also find a cute nickname to call that special someone.

As a word of advice before we part ways, if you have some deal breakers with anyone, get them out of the way in a gentle, witty, and smart manner. Be sure she has her own deal breaking list of items, so trade carefully.

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The Ultimate List of Cute Names to Call Your Girlfriend

It’s time to have the cute nickname talk for that special girl in your life. Maybe she’s your girlfriend already, or maybe she’s still in the “just a friend” category. Either way, if you’ve clicked on this article looking for that perfect cute nickname for you girlfriend, look no further. The chances are high that you feel pretty strongly about this girl. So, what are the best cute names to call your girlfriend? Putting in the time to do a little online research and think of a name that’s going to a) stick, and b) be endearing is already demonstrating more effort than most. So, congratulations already on thinking about how best to please your gf!

Terms of endearment have been used throughout history to connect people on an exclusive level. But in order for the cute nickname to fit BOTH your relationship and the type of person she is, it needs to be personalized as well as unique. Some girls may prefer funny nicknames. Others might desire something more romantic. She wants something that sounds cute but she also wants to feel that it makes her special. Keep scrolling down for the best cute names to call your girlfriend.

We can only guess what unique and creative nicknames Elon Musk has for his girlfriend Grimes, but we can imagine that they’re highly creative.

Be sure to read through the whole list to make sure that whatever name you choose is a right fit for the girl and sounds good coming out of your mouth. It doesn’t have to just be one name either. Two or three really good one names can also work to keep things diverse, but don’t go overboard. 

Remember our two rules here. This is supposed to be a cute nickname for your girlfriend that is going to stick and be endearing. The goal of finding a cute nickname for your gf is that it continues to stir passion throughout the relationship.

THE TOP NICKNAMES FOR YOUR GIRLFRIEND (OR FUTURE GIRLFRIEND!)

  1. Angel – This one’s pretty self-explanatory. It shows that you see nothing but perfection every time you look at your gf.
  2. Angel Eyes – If her eyes captivate you with a deeply soulful spark that enthralls your senses, this is the name for your girl.
  3. Angel Face – For when her face has the flawless perfection of an angel, this is ideal cute nickname for your girlfriend.
  4. Babe – While a little old fashioned, this nickname has stood the test of time.
  5. Baby – Some like it and some don’t, but this nickname gives off the vibe of deep compassion and sympathy.
  6. Baby Cakes – This is a primo nickname for a girl with curves that you want to show your appreciation for. Do not use this one if your girlfriend has body image issues. 
  7. Baby Doll – This one combines that deep compassion with how you feel about the way she looks.
  8. Baby Girl – Popular in the south, this nickname has a very personal vibe that proves how close you feel to your girlfriend.
  9. Babelicious – For a more playful and light-hearted version of the above nicknames, if your girlfriend likes to feel more carefree.
  10. Beautiful – This can apply to both her looks and her personality if you feel she shines both inside and out.
  11. Blondie – If her blond hair is something she knows you like, prove that connection with this one.
  12. Blue Eyes – Again, this term connects your love with features that make her feel good about herself. It also shows that you’re paying attention. Always compliment a lady’s eyes. 
  13. Bond Girl – If your girlfriend is daring and full of adventure and excitement, her nickname should reflect that. Who’s more daring than a Bond girl?
  14. Boo or My Boo – This one’s pretty popular and well established, more playful than serious.
  15. Boo Bear – A unique twist for girlfriends that love to cuddle and be touchy-feely.
  16. Bootylicious – If her booty stands out and she knows it, this can be a compliment as well as a term of endearment.
  17. Boppity Boo – This unique take on “boo” has just the right kick of alliterative musicality and sounds cute too.
  18. Brown Eyes – If her deep brown eyes are a defining feature, use that to personalize your affection. It’ll be a compliment too. Remember, never forget to give compliments!
  19. Brown Sugar – For a girlfriend of color who brings the overload of sweetness into your life. 
  20. Bubble Butt – A bit like the one above, this nickname implies more sexy intentions. If she’s got one and loves it, let her know every time you call out to her.
  21. Bunny – A sweet term to show your softer side.
  22. Buttercup – This one is intimately classic. You won’t hear very many use this one, so for a more classic feel choose something old school for uniqueness.
  23. Butterfly – The nickname for the girl who’s lighthearted and lifts your heart. 
  24. Care Bear – If you’ve ever watched care bears, you understand this one matches someone who displays a deep compassion for humanity.
  25. Mon cheri – This one is French for sweetheart, and you can bet it ups the cool factor, not to mention cultured.
  26. Chica – For a sweet and sexy Latina girlfriend in your life. 
  27. Crazy Hot Stuff – When she’s proud to be different, and also smoking hot, let her know!
  28. Cupcake – When she’s the definition of sweetness, call her a cupcake. 
  29. Cutie – Playful and straight to the point.
  30. Cutie Pie – Taking the above nickname to another level, connecting playful with sweet and a swirl of delicious.
  31. Dancer Girl – If she loves to dance, this personalized nickname will remind her that you know her better than anyone else.
  32. Dancing Queen – If she loves to dance and you want her to know she’s the best one on the dance floor.
  33. Darling – Another old-fashioned one, this carries with it a depth and tenderness she may appreciate. Definitely a winner for more traditional girls. 
  34. Delicious One – When you want her to know you think she’s so cute you could just eat her up.
  35. Divine One – This one’s pretty serious, for the girlfriend who wants you to make her feel like the embodiment of perfection. Note: if she’s super religious, maybe pass on this name. 
  36. Doll – Be careful with this one, dolls are made to fit our idea of beauty. That said, some girls don’t want to be compared to a child’s toy.
  37. Dove – Doves are symbolic of everlasting love and harmony.
  38. Dream Girl – When you want her to know she’s the one you’re always dreaming of.
  39. Dream Lover – When you want her to know what kind of dreams you had when you were dreaming of her.
  40. Glorious One – Again, this one is for girls who want to be made to feel exceptional.
  41. Gorgeous One – One of my personal favorites, this one uses the best compliment a girl can receive.
  42. Green Eyes – Remember that girls love to have their defining features noticed, especially those who have this rare and beautiful trait.
  43. Gummy Bear – If she loves candy and bears, this could describe her perfectly.
  44. Heavenly One – If she makes you feel like you’re in heaven, let her know it.
  45. Honey – Another classic that works well for girlfriends that are sweet and compassionate.
  46. Honey Bee – For when she’s sweet as honey, but also has a bite (or a sting) to back it up.
  47. Honey Love – A unique take, this one also carries with it feelings of a deep connection.
  48. Hot Stuff – Being called hot really makes a girl feel good, show her love and make her feel special at the same time.
  49. Hottie – If she’s hot and she knows it, give her what she wants.
  50. Jiggly Puff – For your girlfriend with curves who isn’t afraid to show it, let her know you love her bounce. 
  51. Kitten – Another one to show that while she’s cute, she can also have a bite.
  52. Lemon Drop – If she’s sour sometimes but then turns sweet (and knows it), she’ll love this one.
  53. Light of My Soul – Another deep nickname that carries the seriousness of your devotion.
  54. Lioness – For the girl who is fierce and fearless, and wants to be the queen of the jungle.
  55. Little Bird – For the small sized girlfriend who chirps and tweets. 
  56. Little Peanut – This nickname is highly specific but might just be the right match. 
  57. Loco – If she’s at peace with her crazy side and isn’t afraid to show it, let her know that it’s a quality you enjoy.
  58. Lovebird – Use this if the two of you feel inseparable and do everything together.
  59. Love Bug – For when your girlfriend clings to your love with unwavering relentlessness.
  60. Loved One – When your love defines the relationship, you want your partner to know that she’s the one who is the object of your love. 
  61. Lovely – This one implies that she outshines the rest with endearing sweetness.
  62. Lover Girl – If she’s your lover and you want her to know how special that connection is.
  63. Miss Dreamy – If she’s seriously dreamy, this title calls out her ownership of the term.
  64. Miss Steamy – As the term above implies ownership, this one’s for the girl who exudes sensuality.
  65. Miss Sunshine – When her personality shines for the world to see.
  66. Miss Universe – When she’s the center of your world and represents everything you love.
  67. Miss Wonderful – If she fills you with wonder, this name will prove time and time again she’s everything that’s beautiful to you.
  68. Moonshine – A romantic twist on an old Appalachian local brew for a homely girl with a serious spark. 
  69. My… – Adding the word “my” to any of these names will increase the impact of its meaning.
  70. My Dear – Another classic nickname that has held its own through the years.
  71. My Fair Lady – Not just a song, this classic is sure to make her light up. It exudes class. 
  72. My Juliet – If her love is undying, remind her of your true love and commitment.
  73. Passionate One – Use her passion to take the nickname you choose to another level.
  74. Peach – Peaches are both cute and sweet, so this nickname works on a lot of different levels. If she’s from Atlanta, just keep in mind this name might’ve been used on her already! 
  75. Precious One – If you see her as a jewel-encrusted shrine of gold, let her know the value she holds is priceless.
  76. Pretty – This one’s simple, but straight to the point. Every girl wants to feel pretty, and this name gives the right burst of positive reinforcement. 
  77. Pretty Lady – Go a step further and add more substance to your compliment.
  78. Pretty Girl – If the nickname above is a bit too old for her, use girl instead of lady.
  79. Princess – If she loves fairy tales and wants to be treated like a princess, tell her every day that she already is one in your eyes.
  80. Pumpkin – A lot of girls love this name. It conjures up the Cinderella magic. But just like Baby Cakes, be wary of who you’re using this on. 
  81. Pumpkin Pie – Who doesn’t love pie?
  82. Scrumptious – Another one to showcase her deliciousness while showing off your own vocabulary range. 
  83. Sexiness – She’s sexy and you want her to know you know it.
  84. Sexy – Simple and straight to the point. This is a classic and a winner. But be mindful of when and where you’re using this! 
  85. Sexy Mama – If you want her to know having kids only adds to her appeal. This one is a real winner the world over. 
  86. Smiley – Use this one if she’s always using her smile to brighten the world.
  87. Smiley Face – Again, if her face is always lighting up, and you love it.
  88. Sparkly Eyes – Remember, girlfriends love it when you take notice of their eyes. And who doesn’t love a sparkle? 
  89. Star – When she ignites your passion like the splitting of hydrogen atoms.
  90. Star Bright – If she outshines everyone else with the brightness of her personality.
  91. Sugar – Another old-fashioned nickname that never goes out of style. Especially if she’s a sweetie too.
  92. Sugar Plum – If she likes fairies and The Nutcracker, this one’s for her.
  93. Sun Beams – Another take on bringing attention to the glory of her smile.
  94. Sunflower – Beautiful and universally recognized for her ability to soak up the rays like no other.
  95. Sunshine – When she’s your one and only sunshine. You could incorporate the song occasionally to add an extra connection.
  96. Star Shine – If she prefers the night, use this one to bring attention and personalize her nickname.
  97. Sweetheart – This classic continues to charm girls throughout the ages. One of my favorite girlfriend nicknames.
  98. Sweetie – Simple, cute and straight to the point. Sometimes being direct is your best bet.
  99. Sweet Pea – If you’re like two peas in a pod.
  100. Sweetie Pie – Again, who doesn’t love pie?
  101. Sweetness – Because she sweetens your life with joy.
  102. Sweets – A more modern take, I like the message this one conveys.
  103. The Fairest of Them All – Another one for fairy tale loving girls, this time with a twist of darkness.
  104. The Mrs. – If you plan to put a ring on it, this is a good way to drop the hint.
  105. The Sweetest – Put her on a pedestal above all others and let her know she’s the best.
  106. Tigress – Another nickname that showcases her fierceness.
  107. Twinkles – Here’s a cute name for the girlfriend that twinkles like a star.
  108. Wifey – Use this to let her know she’s wife material.
  109. Wonderful – This is one of the quickest ways to show her how much she means to you
  110. Yummy – Another nickname to describe how delicious you think she is.

Final Thoughts on Cute Nicknames to Call Your Girlfriend

And there you have it! With all these names in mind, there is bound to be one (or two, or three) good matches for your lady friend. Figure out which nickname fits your girl best. Sometimes it will take a few tries until you land on the right one. When it comes to finding cute names to call your girlfriend, it’s good to try a few options, but still think carefully before calling her something.

Keep an ear and eye out for how she reacts when you call her by any of these names. Read her reactions and her expressions, and don’t repeat names that she clearly doesn’t like. Remember, good partners are good listeners, so show that you care by showing you listen. Want to get to know her a little better? Once you’ve identified some cute names to call your girlfriend, try a good game of never have I ever. This game is going to reveal a lot though, so don’t judge too harshly!

If you do try out some things that you think are cute names to call your girlfriend and they horribly backfire, don’t panic! Just buy her some chocolates, offer a sincere apology, and then come back to this list and try out some new names until one sticks.